Fulton Oursler learned the lesson of a grateful heart from an African-American woman who helped care for him when he was a little boy. Every time she sat down to eat, she would bow her head and say, “Much obliged, Lord.” Oursler asked her why she did this because the food was there for her to enjoy whether she gave thanks or not.
She replied, “Sure we get our vittles, but it makes everything taste better to be grateful. Looking for good things is a kind of game an old preacher taught me to play. Take this morning. I woke up and thought, ‘What’s there to praise God for today?’ You know what? I couldn’t think of a thing! Then, from the kitchen, came the most delicious odor that ever tickled my nose. Coffee! Much obliged, Lord, for the coffee,’” I said, “and much obliged, too, for the smell of it!”
Many years later, Oursler stood at the bedside of that woman as she lay dying. Seeing her in much pain, he wondered if she could still find something to be grateful for. Just then she opened her eyes. As she saw him and the others gathered around, she folded her hands and said with a smile, “Much obliged, Lord, for such fine friends.”
“Rejoice always, pray without ceasing, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.” (I Thessalonians 5:16-18)